Monday, February 28, 2011

In the Presence of My Enemies: Week 8


Chapters 21, 22, 23

I’m anxious to process these three chapters with you. This has been a challenging book for me to read—and I’m sure it has been for you, too. The story of Gracia’s rescue and recovery dramatically alters her life—forever. As you read these chapters, please look for the positives and negatives that you think either help or hinder the healing process in her life. What lessons can you take from those influences to apply in your life?

How do you think Gracia’s experience impacted her?

How do you think this book impacted you? What are the lessons you take away from it?

Again—thanks for sharing this book with me. May God use it to teach us how to live whatever challenges He allows into our lives.


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Monday, February 21, 2011

In the Presence of My Enemies: Week 7

Chapters 18, 19, 20

Thank you for sticking with us. Let’s finish our book club well—OK. We’re getting to some tough pages—and many have already been very hard to comprehend. I wonder if you will find these three chapters difficult to read. I sure did. They contain accounts of hunger, sickness, despair and worse. As you read, please pay particular attention to the emotional challenges Martin and Gracia experience. What causes them? Where do they come from? What do Martin and Gracia do to fight them?


I’d like to ask you to share about how you cope with emotional challenges. Are there spiritual practices you find helpful?


How do you respond to Martin’s death and Gracia’s rescue? I really can’t imagine living this part of Gracia’s story.


We’ll finish our book next week—Thank you so much for participating. This book challenges my thinking in several ways. I’m glad I’ve been able to process it with you!

Monday, February 14, 2011

In the Presence of My Enemies: Week 6

Chapters 15, 16, 17

Martin and Gracia have constantly been learning and adapting throughout their time in captivity. They’ve learned to flex (when to share their one tooth brush and when not to), when to give up dreams (discarding jeans that no longer fit and take up too much space and energy to carry) and how to interact with the different people in their lives. I really admire their learners’ hearts. They didn’t stay stuck—they kept on learning even in such trying circumstances.
This week—would you please share lessons you’ve learned through trials or difficult circumstances?
How has something hard produced something good in your life through the lessons you learned?

Monday, February 7, 2011

In the Presence of My Enemies: Week 5

Chapters 12, 13, & 14

This week—I want us to comment on two passages from our reading. The first one is found on page 160 where Garcia writes, “I think it was the hunger that made me start to see myself the way I really am…..”

Has there been anything that has revealed your true heart to you? What has God been able to use to confront you with sin in your life?

The second passage is on page 183. Gracia says, “Another thing that helped my mental outlook, if not by body, was remember Scripture I had memorized long ago…..One Sunday, I found a piece of paper and began writing down all the promises of God I could recall.” What are some of the verses you would want to remember if you were ever in a situation like this? You have probably been through some hard times in your life. What verses has God used to encourage you?

Thanks again for your comments—we are able to encourage each other when we share what God has done or is doing in our lives.