Death and deep suffering are themes we will read about in this week. We’ll also read about triumph through courage, love, devotion and perseverance. As you read this week, please focus on the emotions of our characters—the family learning the stories, the children who visit the Monks, the Abbott and brothers in the monastery. What do you see? How do you experience what they are facing?
Do you remember the quote on page 206 from Melissa’s mother? In response to her daughters’ conversation about what makes a good friend she says, “I’ve had friends who’ve disappointed me. Sometimes, even the ones who loved me have let me down, not understood, and betrayed my trust. That’s only human nature, isn’t it? I dare say I’ve done as much to them. No, I would say….that because we all have our failings and weaknesses, because each of us is only human, a friend–a good friend–is someone who helps you to persevere…”
How do you see our favorite monks being encouraged to persevere in these pages? How do they respond to that encouragement?
One more set of questions: When do you need help persevering? Who helps you persevere? How do you respond to their encouragement?
I look forward to reading your comments. Through our comments we can help each other persevere.
2 comments:
I believe Melisssa(Father P daughter) was devoted her father. Coming with the kids around Easter time. She knew it was hard for him based on his beatings happening around that time. She was encouraging for him and brought him some happiness during a dark time in his life.
As for me my devotion,courage and perseverance was with my father while he was facing death from terminal cancer.It wasn't easy watching him die, but the part about me I was determined that was he wasn't going to die alone.Was it easy to watch...absolutely not! God was a big comfort for me during that time. I also had friend who would take my kids at a moments notice so I could be with him.
I get a kick out of Catherine for asking the questions she did. I think it was child innocence based on what she saw and wanted an answer. (Catherine asking Brother Cormac why he was crying ) One of my daughters was like this as well. Her Grandpa would come from Chicago to visit us in the late fall. She had an event at school one day and asked her Gpa to go. He said "No". Then she pipes up with How come you come to visit us and you don't go anywhere. I asked
her to be quiet and then I wanted to go under the table being embarassed. Her Gpa said " Leaave her be she is right and I will go now" She got the blessing she was looking for.
I think Brother John encouraging Brother Tom to go and see Father P was important.I believe it was important for Father P as well. Brother John had to say some hard things to share with Brother Tom. At first Brother Tom was adamantly refusing to go see Father P. The decision was made and Brother Tom went to see Father P.Father P could not speak well only yes or no to questions. Imagine Father P's face as Brother Tom would be able to know what he was thinking.Brother Tom was able to answer the questions he asked the Father. Then the Father could agree or disagree. The way they communicate with each other is because of being together often and a mutual respect for each other. I also think they were both encouraged as it help Father P to want to speak and for Brother Tom to see how much he helped Father P. It took Brother John some time getting Brother Tom to continue to visit Father P.,despite Brother Tom feeling inadequate.
I am actually in a position where persevernce and encouragement will be needed. My Mom just moved in with us and she has Alzheimers. I look back and see God's hand in the prepartion work. We started a new life group last year and 3 of us have caretaking issues. One of the gals has her Mother in Law living with her. I met with her for lunch to ask her some questions about having a parent live at your house. She also shared some things I diidn't even think about. It is reassuring to have her in my life. I can call her any time and not feel judged by what I say. i am blessed with other friends who have already told me they will make sure I take time for myself.
My daughters are also a big help with encouragement. They definitely know me very well.
I can't wait to finish the book to see how it ends!
I loved watching Melissa watch her father-so much love there. Thank you, Donna for your descriptions of her love for him. I can see your love for your father in your dedication to him. I'm glad so glad God was your comfort during that time!Now you are showing that same love and care for your mom--and you are right, it will be challenging. I praise God with you for the community he is building around you for support and encouragement. I know He will be your help and strength!
Thanks for posting, Donna!
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